The human being of earth endures several machinations of influence and strong-armed-drumming from childhood all the way into adulthood and up even until the time of death. He/she is born into a world so lacking in love, favoring the life of a rockstar, enjoying materialism to its full degenerative extent. The casual earth human is taught that to have any form of worth or recognition as a human being, he/she must become this or that, must wear these clothes, must follow this trend, must vote for this president, must watch this movie or TV series, must have so much money in the bank, and other ridiculous ideas created by primitive human beings who have worked their mass-hypnotic-lunacy on others, and like a mindless drone, the casual earth human, absorbs these concepts and terrible ideologies. He/she then lives their life in a hamster wheel, in deep conflict with their true, innermost selves which leads to a turmoil in the psyche and by extension, overall-consciousness block. He/she knows that deep down, this is not the way - it is not filled with any true values and love, yet the earth human, sometimes out of force, sometimes out of their own pre-conceived notions and inability to think for themselves; blindly borrowing others' delusional ideas and making them their own, fails time and time again to find any true peace and lasting happiness.
Neither of these, nor can the satisfaction or the harmony, come about if the earth human is so muddled in their over-the-top-ego-driven ambitions. He/she wants to be the biggest boss, the highest achiever, the richest goon, the greatest of the great, and yet, he/she fails to realize that they sell their very soul (psyche) in order to go about fulfilling these half-baked-loveless dreams, only to find themselves at the end of their completion, broken, distraught, saddened, rife with problems and trauma, suicidal, unsatisfied and starving. He/she fails to realize that in their conquest to prove themselves to the rest of the world, he/she has failed to prove the greatest test which is to themselves. He/she has went about on the way to become a soulless husk, a psyche so filled with turmoil all for the sake of pleasing these deluded-seeded ideas that in most cases, didn't even originate with the human but with outside influence.
Such outside influence would go on to teach mankind that he/she must live according to this and that way, that such is the case of life and such is reality - that it must answer solely to the almighty dollar, a god, a priest, a pastor, teacher, friend, partner, job title, academic achievement, game achievement, retainment of information from books or internet sources, and so on and so forth, which in no way can ever correspond to true reality which is of course nature and natural order itself. When one looks into the nature, he/she will realize that there is no competition. Man may turn to the nature and perceive it to be competition, destruction, craziness, and so on, but these are only the fallacious delusions of his psychological projections. He/she has yet to understand the depth and extent; essentially, the wisdom and love of nature because he/she is so blinded in unnatural thought that when the truth is presented, he/she hides like a rat-coward, shuffling about for their addictive-substances (deeply ingrained thoughts about how the life works stemmed from materialism, religion, wrong modes of thinking etc. which the human finds nigh-impossible to get rid of).
Time and time again, man defiles him/herself into a psychopathic-robotic-unfeeling-husk solely because of a promotion, an achievement, making ends meet, pleasing others, etc. Yet it must be said that as a rule, he/she who fails to listen to their innermost voice - which is the truest of all love, the highest love available to the human, then he/she will find themselves subject to abyssal clutches of dread which comes as consequences from a life lived without love. A life without love is not a life at all, and no life for that matter, can be sustained without love - so is the case with dreams and goals which have no love and no value in them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a good car, a good home, riches, achievements, being the best, looking good and so forth as long as these are imbued with love and moderation (positive-negative-harmonization-balance). It is the chasing of the goals that have absolutely nothing more to offer than a check mark on the paper which leads the human to a state of incompleteness.
The human is not just a one-block thinking machine. It has thoughts, feelings, emotions, inspirations, a psyche, a fine-spiritual-perceptive nature and a spiritual personality in addition to other blocks. The human is composed of many layers and by no means was it meant to only be some achievement-machine which has no grounded basis in being human; effectively, being natural. It is the case that it is sometimes the very difficult but necessary task to let go, even when one has pushed very hard in that direction. If the love has evaporated, along with all the values, then such a goal has degenerated and become a husk. Pursuit of the husk thereby turns the human into being a husk in order to achieve it. The attraction works in both directions; thus what a human being wishes to attract is in a manner of speaking, what they are. The energies attached to the wished for goal or dream must be the same in actuality. Therefore, a goal that is covered in hatred requires a human with an energetic-matrix of hatred whereas a goal imbued with love requires a human filled with love. It can also be said for a human who has become indifferent toward a goal and no longer deeply feels the inherent need to pursue it further due to their innermost-leading. What the human being thinks is what they attract, and this effect is multiplied based upon the might (concentrative-force).
How then can the human being know which of his/her goals are the right ones and the ones to let go? How then can he/she know what to pursue, especially with all their ideas, philosophies, educations and so forth? The answer is simple. Some call it "follow your heart", others say "listen to your intuition", but the best answer would be to follow the leading of the innermost voice which, in a manner of speaking, can be considered love itself since it is the pre-given Creational nature within, imbuing the human with its love, power and wisdom to be utilized in physical form. The human of earth must truly learn to develop greater consciousness expansion and with it, capabilities, because he/she who does not know the call of his/her own innermost voice is he/she who is blind.
This deepest innermost voice does not speak like a voice, rather, it is a swinging-wave-oscillating-fine-spiritual-perception that radiates into the human and inspires specific trains of thought that are in the right direction. On the flipside, if a specific path should not be followed, then no inspiration-fine-feeling is given / can be perceived. Through this the human learns to truly listen to the guiding-power that is the real I within, and the more the human adapts to this "voice", the more he/she becomes not just an inhabited vessel for the spirit, but a complete Creational-creation that is in unison with itself, aware, steering and capable of fulfilling its own self-evolution through its own determined-steering-fate. It must again be said the importance of meditation. The earth human must truly learn to become one with their whole selves and not just their egos, for through the wholeness comes the oneness, and through the oneness comes true completion and satisfaction. The spirit is not just an observer, nor is the spiritual nature with it; rather, it is an active part of the entirety of the human being and the earth human must learn to develop themselves in true unity with it in order to bring about true peace and effective change. The goals, if imbued with the true love which is the guidance of the spiritual-counterpart, becomes not just an achievement, but a lasting success that brings healthy consciousness and spirit evolution.