Love is not only a positively-intensive process, it is also a pruning. If you wish for true love, be prepared for the negative. If it's real, then no amount of negative can stop you from arriving at the destination safely.
If the love is real, then it can withstand scrutiny and pain.
The path of love may wound you, but it won't break you. Love is there to mold you into becoming who and what you need to be and who you wish to become.
Love strengthens us, but it is only through negative unified with positive can love be whole and complete.
The positive-negative bipolarity in regards to love and unity.